Hi Kasey~ I’m new here too. I’m sorry to hear about your relationship! It’s tough, especially if it’s long term. About a year and a half ago, I got out of a 6 and a half year relationship. It was one of the first relationships where I felt like I was ready to settle down in too.
All I can say is with time, it does get easier. No matter how bleak it may appear now, happiness is right around the corner waiting for you. It just doesn’t have to come with another guy attached with it. Take some you-time and let go of all the baggage that was left with your previous relationship before you try again.